Embracing Smiles

Jun 13, 2023

Embracing Smiles and Self-care for Inner Bliss
Author: Priya Saikia


In our fast-paced and demanding world, it’s easy to get caught up in the daily hustle and forget to take care of the most important person in our lives – ourselves. We often prioritize work, relationships, and responsibilities but completely ignore our own well-being. Self-care is necessary to maintain balance, recharge, and cultivate a healthy relationship with ourselves. It is a necessity to ensure that our physical, emotional, and mental needs are met.

Let’s start by talking about the simplest way to start our self-care routine. Have you ever smiled at a stranger on the road? If not, give it a try. You’ll be amazed at how often they will smile back. Smiling is infectious, and therefore, it is amazing! When someone smiles at you, it can instantly uplift your mood and brighten your day. Moreover, there’s science behind this. When we smile, our brain releases endorphins, serotonin, and dopamine, which are neurotransmitters associated with happiness and well-being. This natural high helps keep us positive and enhances our overall sense of self-care. In this blog post, we will explore some of the incredible benefits of the simple act of smiling.

Reducing Stress and Anxiety 
One of the most significant benefits of smiling is its ability to reduce stress and anxiety. Yes, you heard us right. This simple muscle movement can send signals to our brains that everything is okay, even during challenging situations. The physical act of smiling triggers the release of the stress-reducing hormone called cortisol, while also lowering our blood pressure and heart rate. By incorporating smiling into our self-care routines, we can effectively manage stress and cultivate a more relaxed state of being. So next time, when you’re stressed with deadlines, take a pause and smile. It might help you work much better.

Boosting Confidence and Self-Esteem
Self-care is not just about taking care of our physical health; it also involves nurturing our emotional well-being. And guess what, smiling can help in regard as well. This simple muscle movement plays a great role in boosting our confidence and self-esteem. When we smile, it conveys a sense of warmth, approachability, and self-assurance. It can help us feel more comfortable in social situations and improve our relationships with others. Moreover, remember that smiling can trick our brains into believing that we are happy, which in turn leads to a genuine increase in our overall sense of self-worth. Honestly, my own confident personality today is probably a result of a morning practice that my high school teacher taught me. She told me to wish myself a good morning with a bright smile every single morning right after I wake up and trust me, this practice has been so helpful in life that I do it even today. 

Enhancing Physical Health
Believe it or not, smiling can also have a positive impact on our physical health. When we smile, our facial muscles are activated, which in turn stimulates blood flow and improves oxygenation. This increased circulation can contribute to healthier skin, as well as a more youthful and radiant appearance. Maybe, it is time to include smiling in our skin-care routine as well. Additionally, smiling can strengthen our immune system by reducing the levels of stress hormones that can weaken our body’s natural defence mechanisms. Basically, by smiling more, we can support both our physical and mental well-being. 

Spreading Positivity and Connection
Self-care is not only about individual needs; it is also about our interactions with others. A simple smile can be a powerful tool for spreading positivity and fostering connections. When we smile at others, it creates a sense of warmth and openness, encouraging them to reciprocate and engage with us on a deeper level. This exchange of positive energy can enrich our relationships, create a supportive community, and enhance our overall self-care journey.

In the pursuit of self-care, we often overlook the simplicity and effectiveness of a smile. Smiling not only brings joy to ourselves but also radiates positivity to those around us. We are born with the ability to smile, yet we smile less and less as we age. By smiling more frequently every day, we can experience a wide range of benefits, from reducing stress and anxiety to boosting confidence and self-esteem. So, let’s remember to prioritize self-care and unleash the magic of a smile. 

As Tom Wilson said, “A smile is happiness you’ll find right under your nose.”
28 Jun, 2023
Have you heard of the saying that “It is only with gratitude that life becomes rich?” In the hustle and bustle of daily life, we often forget to express our gratitude for the blessings and experiences that surround us. However, taking time to express gratitude can have a profound impact on our mental well-being. In this blog post, we will explore the importance of expressing gratitude and how it contributes to our overall mental health and happiness. Acknowledging the Good and Strengthening Positive Relationships Expressing gratitude involves actively acknowledging and appreciating the positive aspects of our lives. It encourages us to focus on what we have rather than what we lack. By verbalizing or expressing our gratitude, we create space for positive emotions to flourish. When we express gratitude, we shift our focus from what is lacking to what we already have, nurturing a sense of contentment and happiness. Moreover, gratitude acts as a catalyst for building and nurturing positive relationships. When we express gratitude to others, whether through kind words, gestures, or acts of appreciation, we strengthen the bond between us. It fosters a sense of connection, empathy, and understanding, which contribute to our overall well-being. Amplifying Positive Emotions and Cultivating Optimism and Resilience When we express gratitude, we amplify positive emotions within ourselves and those around us. Sharing our appreciation allows us to relive joyful moments and enhances our overall happiness. Moreover, the act of expressing gratitude creates a positive ripple effect, uplifting the spirits of others and fostering a positive atmosphere. Expressing gratitude helps us cultivate an optimistic mindset. By focusing on the positive aspects of our lives, we train our minds to seek out the good, even in challenging situations. This optimistic outlook enables us to develop resilience and navigate through adversity with greater strength and determination. Reducing Stress and Anxiety While Enhancing Self-Worth Gratitude has a remarkable ability to reduce stress and anxiety. When we express gratitude, we shift our attention away from worries and negative thoughts, redirecting our focus towards the present moment and the things we appreciate. This practice helps alleviate stress, promotes relaxation, and enhances our overall mental well-being. Expressing gratitude extends beyond others; it also involves acknowledging and appreciating ourselves. By recognizing our strengths, achievements, and the progress we have made, we boost our self-worth and self-esteem. Engaging in self-care practices and expressing gratitude for our bodies, minds, and abilities nurtures a positive self-image and contributes to our mental well-being. Incorporating Gratitude into Daily Life Expressing gratitude can be incorporated into our daily routines in various ways. It can be simple as saying “thank you” to someone who has helped us or writing a heartfelt note of appreciation. Journaling about the things we are grateful for, practising gratitude meditations, or engaging in gratitude exercises with loved ones are all effective methods to integrate gratitude into our lives. My favourite gratitude exercise is that every night after dinner, I think of at least one thing that happened during the day that I am grateful for. Sometimes it might be as simple as eating my favourite cheesecake, but these little things matter a lot in keeping ourselves positive and building a healthy mindset. Cultivating a practice of gratitude has the power to transform our mental well-being. By embracing gratitude, we shift our focus from negativity to positivity, fostering happiness, resilience, and improved mental health. Let's embark on this journey of gratitude and allow its transformative power to enrich our lives, one thankful moment at a time. By Priya Saikia
20 Jun, 2023
As winter casts its icy spell upon us, it is not uncommon to experience a sense of melancholy and fatigue commonly known as the “winter blues.” The shorter days, longer nights, and colder temperatures can take a toll on our mood and our overall well-being. Last year, I was deeply affected by the winter blues during my entire year-long experience of winter. In 2021, while in my home country, the chilliness began early in October and by the end of the month, winter had set in. Shortly after, in February 2022, I arrived in Melbourne, where the days were already becoming cold. The frigid Antarctic winds were completely new to me, and it was far from being a pleasant experience. To make matters worse, summer didn’t arrive in Melbourne until November, leaving me with a full year of winter. It was a truly challenging time, especially considering my fondness for the summer season. It was during that time that I found out about seasonal affective disorder (SAD) during winter, also known as winter depression or winter blues. However, I refused to give up or succumb to the gloomy grip of the season. If you struggle with winter blues like me then luckily for us, there are several ways in which we can fight this and embrace the joys that this chilly season can offer. Embrace Natural Light With the days growing shorter, it’s crucial to maximize exposure to natural light. Open your curtains or blinds during the day to let in as much sunlight as possible. Very often, I would keep my blinds open even during the night so that I wake up to the beautiful sun shining right through my window. If feasible, take a walk outside during daylight hours to soak up some vitamin D and release some serotonin, which can significantly boost your mood and energy levels. Stay Active Another way I kept myself from succumbing to the gloomy days was by staying active. Physical activity is a proven mood booster and can help combat the winter blues very well. Engaging in regular exercise help release those feel-good endorphins, which can help alleviate symptoms of depression and anxiety. I started playing tennis last winter and it helped me so well in brightening my days. I even continued my yoga practice, and I often made my friends practice with me. It is such a simple way of fighting the winter blues by just finding an activity you enjoy, whether it is joining a gym, practising yoga, dancing, or simply taking brisk walks in the crisp winter air. Not only will exercise enhance our overall well-being, but it will also keep us warm and energized during the colder months. As the saying goes; two birds, one stone. Don’t Forget to Socialise Winter often tempts us to hibernate indoors, but this is something we must fight against. Isolation can worsen feelings of sadness and loneliness, which is why making a conscious effort to stay connected with loved ones will help us against these gloomy feelings. Plan social activities such as movie nights, game evenings, or hotpot dinners with friends and family. If physical gatherings are not possible, utilize technology to connect virtually. Regular social interactions can provide a much-needed boost to your emotional well-being and create lasting memories. Back in my hometown in Assam, we have this beautiful culture of going to picnics during the daylight hours and gathering around a bonfire after dark every single day with our friends and family. This is one of the reasons why winter never felt gloomy in Assam, social interactions and the amazing memories made winters absolutely beautiful. Winter Activities Furthermore, every season has distinct activities that cannot be enjoyed in other seasons. Likewise, winter too has heaps of unique opportunities for enjoyment. Embrace the charms of this chilly season by participating in winter activities. Go skiing, build snowmen, have a snowball fight, or go sledding. Additionally, do not forget to relish the pleasures of winter cuisine, such as sipping lots of hot chocolate by the fireplace or indulging in comforting soups and stews. While winter blues may seem inevitable, it is important to remember that we have the power to overcome them and find joy even during the coldest months. By embracing natural light, staying active, nurturing social connections, and embracing winter activities, you can transform the winter season into a time of warmth, happiness, and rejuvenation. So, let us say goodbye to the winter blues and welcome the beauty and wonder that this beautiful season brings. Remember that winters might not be easy, but we can make it worth it. Blog by: Priya Saikia
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